What’s in store for me
Hello World … the Doctor is in …
So I’ve been through my share of ups, downs, heart breaks and disappointments. But nothing has bothered me more than when someone you’re close friend dates someone you use to date/talk to or have relations with. Like that’s a slap in the face, c’mon son REALLY?!?!? It makes you think that they were plotting on your relationship or the demise of it especially when you told your friend about the guy, your feelings about him or etc. It also makes the guy look like a worthless piece of scum whore ass trash because you thought it was a good idea to date someone I was close too? Out of all the women on the planet you decided to date one I’m close to? #TRIFLIN
BUT there is always sunshine at the end of the tunnel, and I see sunshine in the unsuccessfulness of these hook ups/relationships. (Maybe that’s bad but oh well) I always say “you can’t expect to reap the benefits of a task you gained through negative means.” In most cases those relationships don’t last and if they do they are rocky and unstable. Being that it has happened to me before; I see that God has or placed a more amazing, fine ass man in store for me. Thinking or knowing this rather puts things in so much more perspective. God removing a certain guy or person from my life is his way of saying “I got this” don’t fret, you’re blessing is coming. & I can dig it.
Now you aren’t going to wake up with this clarity or positive perspective but hell it’s always good to see your negatives turn into positives.
Just a thought … Until then I’m off … Making House.Calls